Throw Away The Unhealthy Suspicious Feeling


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Throw Away The Unhealthy Suspicious Feeling

Author: Jimmy

Suspicious feeling at the point of time will exist to get know something clearer, such as obtaining knowledge, observing and etc. If it doesn't lead to the question and suspicious feeling, then what will happen is learning something blindly, less dynamic in learning science.

With this condition, for the desire of knowing and the want of understanding something sake, that really is, so it will not lead to the question from that suspicious feeling. The suspicious feeling and the question are the positive thing if it is in term of temporary.

Too much and keep on the feeling of suspicious and suspect (mainly among the people), is a negative, unhealthy thing. It can worse the relationship among the people, destroy the united organization as well as the harmonica of a family.

Far more for the people who have a high feeling of suspicious, to his self, it is a hard thing because he has to be always aware of something and being fear. Looking at other people who might whisper to others, he will feel suspicious. Is that mean that the people who are whispering is doing something bad about him? Or will his effort be destroyed by "A"? Or "B"?

Thus, will it be a disadvantage? Question by question came surrounding with the effect of ice ball, the more time he spent, the bigger and the more unable he was to think. This automatically, the feeling of safety is empty and lead to the un-enjoyable condition that exists now.

There was a story that in Hanjen a man with a name of Kim, who 20 years ago, when he was in the elementary school, did a blood test, which is "A". But because of the failure of the checker, thus the result of the test was recorded as "O" then he never done the blood test anymore and always assumed that his blood type is "O".

After he grown up, he married to a woman with the "O" blood type. From this marriage Kim had a daughter with "O" blood type, and there was nothing happen.

Then the son was born with "A" blood type, so Kim was feeling shocked and started to suspect his wife. Quietly, he looked for a doctor and asked about that, from the doctor's explanation, he know that a husband and wife with the same blood type of "O", will not be able to have child with "A" type.

Obtaining that information, Kim was thinking that his wife must have had an affair with the others. Little by little his behavior changed became more emotional, easy to be angry, did not love his wife and children anymore. Kim often said something rude without reason and hit his wife.

The wife was so surprised, wondering why her husband behaved like that, but it is hard too, to speak up with her husband because she was "the one who was not trusted" anymore. This condition makes her under pressure thus she was stressed and had a deep depression.

Because of the feeling of fear, unable to think clearly, his wife could not stand up anymore and thought of killing her own children then killed her self after.

After that horrible thing, Kim was checked by the forensic doctor and knew that he has an "A" bold type. But, it was late already, his loyal and good wife as well as his cute children has already gone. The beautiful thing in the past is impossible to come out again.

Now, his-self only full of the bad thing by his heart it self, and the feeling of regret that will never end.

The negative suspicious of feeling may bring the horrible effect. As for the people who Xiu Tao / Siu Tao, the feeling of suspicious or being suspected becomes one of the trouble sources that are very confusing.

Life will not be as easy or calm, keeping on the suspicious feeling to somebody else will not be good for our selves, besides it will bring to many intrigue. As a matter of fact those things are not exactly correct. All of those are the wrong shadow that we have made ourselves.

This is the dangerous illness, thus this disease should be killed completely, and so it will not take victims to others or us.